Been scrolling over Tiktok feeds this time. The contents are awesomely great, entertaining, and even touching at some point. So many stories are turned into touching visuals that grasp people's hearts right on point. And here is mine, one of the feed that still gives me goosebump other than all lifehacks info and "make you mine" flirting feeds. 

"People change for two main reasons... their minds have opened.. or their hearts have been broken". 

These sentences, alongside with a great illustration in the video, were being so relatable. 

But why people change? and why would people try so hard to change? Does it necessary to do all the changes? 

Now I know, somehow the video was right. Your minds have opened, or your hearts have been broken. I don't really know for exact, but these contain probabilities of these two options. 

I felt these two options flooding over my body, the people itself that triggers one change to have happened. If you are about to sleep or waking up with the thoughts of "why does it feel so hurt?" every time, you eventually will end up opening your mind because your heart was hurt in the first place. The mind is the central energy of answering our 5W1H question in our life. But the mind will have no pure power to function if the heart does not follow along. 

Changes, something that I have to accept eventually. But, I am a little bit pessimistic in believing the heart can change so easily. But, that's the life we are living in, ain't it? I know your minds have opened, and your hearts have broken. But does not mean necessarily your hearts have changed. At least that what I have been feeling so far. And pretty much I know, it won't last forever. I know there will be a time for us to see the light out of our darkness, to see smiles out of tears, to feel joy out of sorrow. 

Those will remain hopes after we go through so many insecurities, so much overthinking and worrying, or perhaps missing each other and complete one another. But that doesn't make us reunite and redrawn ourselves into a tearful sorrow. 

We chose something we agreed upon, and I hope nothing but the very best come to your life. 

We are both have decided to change, because our minds have opened and our hearts were broken.