Lesson and realization
I
dont think I am an Alpha Man. You know, the one who lead the way and feel
everything should happen according to his plan. As the time goes by, living a
college student for the second time finds me interesting yet a realization of
who I want to be and how I want to run my life.
Lesson
1. As a new comer, its a very essential to make a very first good impression
for others. So, I started to live college life with active, and alpha-mode. Its
when I did often iniative, ruling what’s right to others, and of course give
the most idea to solve any of the assignment given. The edge of the current
semester, and when the final paper assignment given, to a group, nobody was
initiative and apparently all relying on me. What the heck.
They
think I would do the same as I did in the first time, did initiative and doing
most of the work. So, I made mistakes in the very first place.
Besides,
its quite joyful if I do same things as them. I mean, waiting for their
initiative and only doing what has to be done, according to the part given. And,
I no longer mind how the assignment would end up and submitted. I just doing my
stuff, playing as hard, and dont give a damn for what is really going on in the
group chat. Thats so comfortable.
So
for another flip of my life when I move to new place sometime in the future, I
know how to positionize myself infront of the new people. Thats it. As simple
as that. No hard feeling, no silly concern, and so on so forth. No depression.
Lesson
2- Mingle.
I
was so low self-esteem. I dont know the term, but I kinda silent when everybody
talking. I was so afraid to join that it would against my principle, when the
truth is, I am lying to myself over and over again about my principle. So, I
thought, damn principle, lets mingle and enjoy what I can enjoy with this new
guys.
Lesson
3- Do not set hopes in the first place. Same thing in the relationship, feeling
pain from what we wish we should’ve gained. Hopes, expectation, shut them off.
So, whatever happens in any circumstances, just follow what Dory always say; “Keep
Swimming!”
And,
this semester lesson, don’t decide the idea of one person over the group,
because at the end, the person who had the idea would end up working all the
time. Fiuh.
Smart
reflection, as well as reminder, isn’t it?
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